● Beyond Amma & Appa

A family with a name for everyone

Many Indian languages have specific, distinct words for relatives that English simply groups under "aunt," "uncle," or "cousin" — a small sign of how central extended family is to daily life.

The generation above Amma and Appa

Paternal grandparents

Thatha / Dada, Paati / Dadi

Often live with or very near the family, playing an active role in raising grandchildren and passing down stories, language, and tradition.

Maternal grandparents

Nana, Nani

A distinct set of terms exists for the mother's parents — often visited during school holidays and festivals in many families.

Great-grandparents

Elder Thatha / Dada

In multi-generational households, great-grandparents are often still an active, respected presence at the head of the family.

Family elders

Peddamma, Perimma

The eldest woman of the extended family often holds a matriarchal role, consulted on major family matters.

A precise vocabulary for every branch

Father's elder brother

Periappa, Tau

A distinct term from the father's younger brother — age relative to the father changes the word entirely.

Father's younger brother

Chithappa, Chacha

Often treated almost like a second father, especially in close joint families.

Father's sister

Athai, Bua, Foi

A paternal aunt with her own dedicated title, distinct from a maternal aunt.

Mother's brother

Mama, Maama

The maternal uncle often holds a special, affectionate role — especially at weddings and coming-of-age ceremonies.

Mother's sister

Chithi, Mausi, Aunty

Often referred to warmly and treated almost as a second mother in many families.

Uncle's wife

Chithi, Mami

Aunts by marriage typically receive their own distinct term rather than being folded into "aunt" generally.

Spouse's parents

Mama-Mami, Sasural

In-laws are given significant respect and are often addressed with the same reverence as one's own parents.

Spouse's siblings

Nathun, Devar, Nanad

Distinct terms exist for a spouse's brother versus sister, and whether they are older or younger.

Even siblings are titles, not just names

In many Indian families, siblings and cousins are addressed by age-specific terms of respect rather than by first name alone.

Elder brother

Anna, Bhaiya, Dada

Used as a title of respect — often applied to elder male cousins and even close family friends, not just biological brothers.

Elder sister

Akka, Didi, Chechi

Carries the same respectful weight as "elder brother" — commonly extended to close cousins too.

Younger siblings

Thambi, Tanaya, Chinnamma

Younger siblings are often called affectionately by name, without the same formal title requirement.

Cousins

Often called "brother" / "sister"

Many Indian languages have no separate word for "cousin" at all — cousins are simply brothers and sisters, reflecting how closely extended family is held.